Gay and Lesbian Pregnancy
Gay and lesbian couples typically raise children in three contexts. The first is where one of the partners is already the biological parent of a child. The second is where the same-sex couple agrees to have a child and plan that one of them will be the biological parent, and that, after birth, they will raise the child together. The third is where the same-sex couple seeks to adopt or become the foster parents of a child who is not biologically related to either of them.
Approximately 250,000 children are being raised by same-sex couples in the United States, but the rights of these parents “vary widely among states,” in that only about half allow second-parent adoptions by the unmarried partner of an existing legal parent and a handful of state courts have ruled these adoptions not permissible under state laws. Yet another estimate is that at least 270,000 children are being raised by same-sex couples; this number does not include single lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender parents. It seems likely that same-sex parents are underreported in the Census. (Another cited statistic is that between one million and nine million children are raised in families with at least one gay parent). Same-sex couples are raising children via single parent adoptions in all states except Florida.