The essentials:

• Take daily folic acid/prenatal vitamin (Start 2-3 months before conception)
• See your doctor for a preconception visit
• Be at your optimal weight (BMI 19.5-24.9) 
• Stop drinking alcohol and/or taking drugs
• Decrease caffeine and diet soda
• Eat healthy (fertility) food
• Learn everything about improving your pregnancy chances
• Track your cycles: Find out if and when you ovulate
• Find out your fertile window for the best time to have sex
• Stop birth control
• Take all recommended vaccines

Be prepared:

• Preconception blood tests
• Ovarian reserve testing
• Blood tests
• Test his fertility: Sperm analysis
• Sonogram of ovaries for antral follicle count
• Check fallopian tube health

Take time now:

• Exercise
• Get a mani-pedi. You want to look your best all over
• Review your finances- save money
• Get a hobby
• Review your food habits
• Discuss where you want to live
• Deepen your relationship and talk about becoming parents
• Reevaluate your job
• See your dentist
• Check your insurance
• Discuss pregnancy with friends and your family
• Travel now
• Get your hair ready
• Go through your wardrobe and stop buying clothes
• Find out how to improve fertility
• Learn about early pregnancy signs
• Find a good hospital to have your baby